Terms of social engagement
Someone’s watching you. Sometimes they’re invisible, other times not. What does their behaviour mean?
Find your P-spot, bro
There’s nothing unmasculine about a woman pleasuring a man in his anus
Online nude, offline problem
Send the pic, but take measures to prevent more exposure than you wanted
Myths shroud queer abuse
The idea that violence is heterosexually defined silences same-sex victims
Ways to be a super queer ally
But in trying to be supportive, allies sometimes get
it all wrong
Feminist porn answers a need
Women viewers are increasing and that could help to usher in the sex revolution we are hankering after
Women, it’s okay to lust like men
Half-naked, oiled-up, gyrating male strippers. We want this but think we can’t be seen to do so
Claiming your climax is hard
And the Oscar for best orgasm depicted in a biopic goes to … Kagure Mugo
Safely embrace ‘hoe is life’
Queer people had only the heterosexual space for early lessons in sexual identity
A silence that begins at home
We need to air our own complicity in muting the voices of sexual assault victims
